How to communicate with Rev Sam

I was first told that I'm a poor communicator by a gypsy fortune-teller when I was fifteen, who examined my hand, told me that my little finger was relatively short, that I was therefore bad at communications, and that I should instead be an engineer, because my hands apparently show someone who is good at putting things together and building. Lego always was my favourite toy.

Anyhow, make of that what you will. For me, I'm glad that God can transform any base material to suit his purposes, and that all our inadequacies are redeemed by his grace. It occurs to me that something like this note is needed, because it is not my intention to hide away from contact with people.

In person: either at the Rectory or, more effectively, at one of the services, especially the daily office, after which I will usually have time for a proper chat.

In writing: 93 Kingsland Road, West Mersea, CO5 8AG; or via the parish office; or leave a note on my pew.

By telephone: I do not like the telephone. This is a consequence of my deafness, well described as the 'invisible disability'. However, I do use the telephone a lot, it's inevitable, and my number is 01206 385635. This comes straight through to the desk in my study. If I'm not within earshot of my desk then the telephone will not be answered; it is also turned off when I am on leave or holiday (eg on Thursdays). When that happens then messages can be left on the answerphone in the parish office (or via Carol directly): 01206 383222

By e-mail. I find e-mail the most congenial form of communicating as it a) is in writing so doesn't cause any stresses related to my deafness, and b) gives me time to reflect on issues before replying. However, I appreciate that many people choose not to use this form of communication, and I respect that choice. In that case the above methods of communicating with me remain available.

Also: I have regular meetings with many different groups in the church, including weekly meetings with the wardens and with ministry colleagues, and I speak with Carol most days that she is at work. If you find me too much of a fearsome Viking to approach directly then please do raise matters with wardens, other clergy or Carol. They appreciate the truth that I'm a shy pussycat trying to do his best!